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The Rebbetzins Program (a division of Oorah)

Mission: To prepare singles of baal teshuva background for dating and marriage with the support and guidance they need to navigate the shidduch process.
If you’re a baal teshuva dating or a child of baalei teshuva entering the parsha and looking for more guidance and support, the Rebbetzins program may be just what you’re looking for.

Dedicated Shadchanim Working For You

Our team of experienced shadchanim have access to a large, thoroughly-researched database of eligible singles. They will work together with your mentors and the people who know you well to suggest the shidduchim that are best suited for you.

Support Throughout the Shidduch Process

Rebbetzins is not just about setting you up on dates, but offering personal advice and guidance throughout the entire shidduch process. Even before dating begins, your mentor will be there to give over the expectations of traditional frum dating and Jewish dating customs. Your mentor can work with shadchanim to screen suggestions and help you check references.

Personal Jewish Dating Advice and Mentorship

A Rebbetzins mentor is a teacher, confidante, a role model and an advocate for you. Your mentor will be there with a listening ear and can provide fully informed, personalized advice after dates. Learn why our Jewish Matchmakers are called Rebbetzins.

Guidance in Establishing YOUR Torah Home

When you find the right one, your Rebbetzins mentor will be there not only to rejoice with you, but to give you guidance in establishing your own new home and family.

“…You have no idea how many singles events I’m closed out of because I’m a balaas teshuvah or how many guys pass on me because of that. It’s really hard when you don’t have parents who can network for you…”

– Rachel

4 steps to Join the Rebbetzins

1. Apply
We're not just a Jewish online dating site. You can opt to just join our database and have our shadchanim work to set you up. Or you can take advantage of our mentorship option too, and get so much more than only shidduch suggestions.

We're not just a Jewish online dating site. You can opt to just join our database and have our shadchanim work to set you up. Or you can take advantage of our mentorship option too, and get so much more than only shidduch suggestions.

2. We’ll Be In Touch
Expect to hear back from us within two weeks. If you are a good fit for our program, we’ll talk to you further to get a better feel for you and your needs. If you’re just joining our shidduch database, you’re done! Join us at shadchan meets and events to make the most of your membership in the Rebbetzins program.

Expect to hear back from us within two weeks. If you are a good fit for our program, we’ll talk to you further to get a better feel for you and your needs. If you’re just joining our shidduch database, you’re done! Join us at shadchan meets and events to make the most of your membership in the Rebbetzins program.

3. Meet your Rebbetzin
If you've opted in to our mentorship program (and we hope you do!), we’ll match you up with the perfect Rebbetzin and arrange a meeting. This is your opportunity to give your Rebbetzin an accurate picture of who you are and what you are looking for in a spouse. As you get to know each other, you'll find your Rebbetzin to be a valuable source of advice, guidance and support throughout your shidduch journey.

If you've opted in to our mentorship program (and we hope you do!), we’ll match you up with the perfect Rebbetzin and arrange a meeting. This is your opportunity to give your Rebbetzin an accurate picture of who you are and what you are looking for in a spouse. As you get to know each other, you'll find your Rebbetzin to be a valuable source of advice, guidance and support throughout your shidduch journey.

4. Follow Up
Our shadchanim, together with your Rebbetzin, will work hard to find an appropriate shidduch for you. Our only goal is your ultimate happiness, so you can be confident we won’t push any inappropriate matches. We’ll continue to be there for you to address your questions and concerns, whether practical or spiritual in nature. And when you find the right one, we’ll be there to celebrate together and help as you start to build your new home on a solid foundation.

Our shadchanim, together with your Rebbetzin, will work hard to find an appropriate shidduch for you. Our only goal is your ultimate happiness, so you can be confident we won’t push any inappropriate matches. We’ll continue to be there for you to address your questions and concerns, whether practical or spiritual in nature. And when you find the right one, we’ll be there to celebrate together and help as you start to build your new home on a solid foundation.

1. Apply
We're not just a Jewish online dating site. You can opt to just join our database and have our shadchanim work to set you up. Or you can take advantage of our mentorship option too, and get so much more than only shidduch suggestions.

We're not just a Jewish online dating site. You can opt to just join our database and have our shadchanim work to set you up. Or you can take advantage of our mentorship option too, and get so much more than only shidduch suggestions.

2. We’ll Be In Touch
Expect to hear back from us within two weeks. If you are a good fit for our program, we’ll talk to you further to get a better feel for you and your needs. If you’re just joining our shidduch database, you’re done! Join us at shadchan meets and events to make the most of your membership in the Rebbetzins program.

Expect to hear back from us within two weeks. If you are a good fit for our program, we’ll talk to you further to get a better feel for you and your needs. If you’re just joining our shidduch database, you’re done! Join us at shadchan meets and events to make the most of your membership in the Rebbetzins program.

3. Meet your Rebbetzin
If you've opted in to our mentorship program (and we hope you do!), we’ll match you up with the perfect Rebbetzin and arrange a meeting. This is your opportunity to give your Rebbetzin an accurate picture of who you are and what you are looking for in a spouse. As you get to know each other, you'll find your Rebbetzin to be a valuable source of advice, guidance and support throughout your shidduch journey.

If you've opted in to our mentorship program (and we hope you do!), we’ll match you up with the perfect Rebbetzin and arrange a meeting. This is your opportunity to give your Rebbetzin an accurate picture of who you are and what you are looking for in a spouse. As you get to know each other, you'll find your Rebbetzin to be a valuable source of advice, guidance and support throughout your shidduch journey.

4. Follow Up
Our shadchanim, together with your Rebbetzin, will work hard to find an appropriate shidduch for you. Our only goal is your ultimate happiness, so you can be confident we won’t push any inappropriate matches. We’ll continue to be there for you to address your questions and concerns, whether practical or spiritual in nature. And when you find the right one, we’ll be there to celebrate together and help as you start to build your new home on a solid foundation.

Our shadchanim, together with your Rebbetzin, will work hard to find an appropriate shidduch for you. Our only goal is your ultimate happiness, so you can be confident we won’t push any inappropriate matches. We’ll continue to be there for you to address your questions and concerns, whether practical or spiritual in nature. And when you find the right one, we’ll be there to celebrate together and help as you start to build your new home on a solid foundation.

HOW YOU CAN GET INVOLVED:

  • For eligible singles APPLY to the Rebbetzins Program. Geared towards young men and women who have never been married between the ages of 18-34.
  • Refer an eligible single friend to the program Here
  • Apply to become a Rebbetzin Here
Endorsed by Gedolim

Rabbi Yaakov Perlow
Rosh Yeshiva Novominsk
Rosh Agudath Israel of America

Rabbi Aharon Feldman
Rosh Yeshiva Ner Yisroel
Baltimore, MD

Rabbi Aryeh Malkiel Kotler
Rosh Yeshiva Beth Medrash Govoha
Lakewood, NJ

Rabbi Matisyohu Salomon
Mashgiach Beth Medrash Govoha
Lakewood, NJ

Rabbi Reuven Feinstein
Rosh Yeshiva Mesivta Tiferes Yerushalayim
Staten Island, NY

Recommended by leading Rabbonim and Askanim

Rabbi Moshe Tuvia Leiff
Rav, Agudath Israel
Bais Binyomin Brooklyn, NY

Rabbi Paysach Krohn
Noted Author & Lecturer

Rabbi Zecharia Wallerstein
Founder, Ohr Naava
Women’s Torah Center

Rabbi Moshe Meir Weiss
Rav, Agudas Yisroel
Staten Island, NY

Rabbi Nota Schiller
Rosh Yeshiva Ohr
Somayach, Yerushalayim

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  • Yisroel

    I can not recommend this organization they do not respond to emails and from my experience discriminate against certain groups of people

    • Shira

      What do you mean by certain groups of people. I’m considering this site, and I’m just curious.

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